The world is not cold.

Growing up, everyone is told like a million times that the world is grim. It’s cold. Each and everyone is greedy, egotistical, mean and much more. You cannot ( are not supposed to)trust anyone but you. I was told likewise. When I refused to believe. They told that you will come to know this thing when you have more experience.
As my judgment was distinctive, I started finding people who share the same judgment. I came to know about the story of two people. John and Ryan.
John and Ryan had a very different relationship. They were friends at the same time John was a student and Ryan was a mentor. John was much younger than Ryan. Initially learning from each other was very fun for them. They always cared about each other.
One day Ryan decided to work on the weakness of John. John was an HSP( Highly Sensitive Person. This state is known to come hereditary.) He didn’t acknowledge it as a weakness.

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He just burst out of tears whenever he was angry, confused or hurt. Even arguing made him cry. Tears were just ready to flow out of his tears. It was natural for him. He had absolutely no control over it. He didn’t consider himself weak because of HSP nature. He considered himself to be able to feel the depths of human emotions. He kinda liked it. But nobody knew that he was an HSP. It was his secret, he never intended to tell anyone.
So thinking John was fragile, Ryan decided to make him emotionally stronger. Whenever he taught something to John he was way too harsh on that criticism. He was using horrible and mean words even sharper than arrows. Ryan thought if he would practice becoming harsher than the world out there, John will not have any difficulty adapting to the world out there.
John noticed it. But due to his HSP nature, he was extensively being hurt. It was like he had new wounds every day before he could cover his old ones. He started following “tit for tat” and started responding in an abrupt way. Ryan though his plan is working. But it wasn’t true. He was broke on the inner side of his body. Since John was a teen and Ryan was older than him, John pitied himself believing that world is really a harsh place. He gave up on his assumption, that the world is good. Even after he realized that Ryan continued to behave that consistently. Ryan was happy more than sad. Because he believed that John is on the right path.
After a few years, when John got to know the world, absolutely. He was 10 feet away from every person. He could not just let someone in. But then he met people. He couldn’t stop seeing the actual good there is in people. Those people resurrected his faith in the world. He was reaffirmed by real experiences. He came to know that nobody is bad. It’s just the situation that makes a person look bad. He thought over the same thing that why Ryan was portraying himself bad? He though it for weeks. He couldn’t find the answer. He was going to ask Ryan himself. So he went over his house. Sadly, at the same time, Ryan was dealing with some family stress. He was frustrated. John recognized that. He forced him to tell everything that was going on. Let me portray that conversation.
J- What is it? Is it work, family? Did you screw up?
R- NO! no. The only problem is I…I didn’t screw up.
J- What?
R- I am a perfect husband, son, employee. Nobody is mad at me.
J- So why are you so mad at yourself?
R- Because I am done.
J- For what?
R- I am done being the person everyone likes. I just wished so much for everyone. I just wanted to help everyone and I did. I did but I got so carried away that I am not a single person anymore. I am heartless, and inspiration as a manager. I am the most romantic person alive as a husband. I am the best son to be. I am everything I was supposed to be. But something feels terribly wrong. I..I…
J- The reason you have that feeling is that you don’t know anymore who you are. You are everything but not Ryan. Back from the time when changed. That one day you made me believe that the world is harsh.
R- I don’t know what are you talking about.
J- But you changed me today, again. You showed me that how good can a person be. How a being can be so selfless. I believe strongly now that the world is not a grim. Its joy and much more than it. We just have to choose what to see.
Ryan was stumped. John left. Those were his last words before leaving Ryans house.
I don’t know what happened next. But I learned a very important lesson. You cannot be strong by just being cold, ruthless or even emotionless. There is another way to be strong. By having faith in people. By believing that the goodness in people will prevail. This story reaffirmed my faith. My judgment made me let people in. I choose to hope for good instead of being afraid of the bad. Because I know that “bad” comes conditionally. Its always up to you whether you judge people by their best or curse them for their worst. Just use the proper pair of eyes to see how much good is there inside the world. Bad can never exceed over good.

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It is destined that Good always triumphs over bad. Hope was, is and always will be stronger than fear.

Top 10 productivity tips in your everyday life.

Ever wondered is there any way to change your daily tiresome routine into something jubilant? Don’t worry we got you covered. Here at Prolohy, we are listing out top 10 productivity tips to boost out your life.

1)Drink water

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You probably know how much our body is dependent of water. Science says its better to drink at least 4-5 liters of water a day. Why? Let us see:

1. Our body is made up of 70% of water. So it is obvious that it needs water to keep it intact!

2. Drinking more water boosts your metabolism.

3. It helps in the regulation of various processes.

4. It powers up your brain. It will help you to perform various challenging tasks, more easily.

5. It will help you to stay fresh all the time.

6. It helps you to reduce anxiety and stress.

7. Your body will stay hydrated all the time.

and many more!

Now, here’s the best way to experience the effects of drinking water:

Start your day by drinking 1-2 cups of lukewarm water before you even brush your teeth. If possible you may add lemon extract to it. It’s a great trick, and it keeps you energized the whole day.

2. Work for long hours? Try this!

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In accord with various studies that are conducted, it is proven that working for long hours without any halts can be unproductive for some people. Since here at Prolophy, we talk only about productive things lets see how you can improve on that.

Work in sessions. Make your one session is around 45mins to 2 hours or even more if and only if you are comfortable with it. then take a break of hardly 20 minutes. Try to minimize the duration in accordance with your session time. Well . in that break time meditate at least for 3 minutes. or even more, if you like it. If you are in the office just take a few deep breaths then take the half amount of very short breaths and keep doing this cycle 3 times. It can power you up all day long.

3. Utilize the free time.

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We have a lot of free time in a day. It is completely okay for you to do whatever you want in that break time, but when you have to kill your time like when stranded in traffic(provided you travel by bus or have a driver)

or waiting in a long queue, you can utilize your time. It’s time for your smartphone to prove how smart it actually is.

In this new era, we have the world at our fingertips. Anyone can do anything, learn almost everything. So here are some few tips, to really start being productive.

1.duolingo- The free yet by far the best language learning app. You can learn any language by just giving 15 mins of your daily time.

2. English-There is a wide range of English vocabulary builder apps to get that lost grip on your fantastic English! Go use that time!

3.Wikihow- This is a great website where you can learn anything you want. In addition, your learning helps wiki how to help poor people all over the world. Just click that

“Yes, I read this article”

button at the bottom of your page.

4. Meditate.

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Meditation not only helps you to relax but more importantly, it relaxes your mind. It helps brain muscles to relax. It boosts your brain cells. Instantly removes all of those clingy negative thoughts. It is really worth to give some time to meditate. There are various cool apps like calm and headspace to help you meditate. Try them.

5. Read.

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Reading books is one of the efficient ways to improve your knowledge, personality, behavior, perspective and everything that comes in between.

When you are reading books you are doing productive things that are tried by millions of people and they were successful in that. So grab that book and read!


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This is a very crucial habit to have. We have so many things around us. These things have different perspectives. Try learning from every situation. Whatever it may be. LEARN! If you make the habit of learning once you are intaking so much beautiful and different things at every moment. Just keep trying until it becomes a habit.

7. Make a to-do list.

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It is great to start your day by knowing what to do. When you create a to-do list, you have a clear vision of what to do. It helps you to stay organized. You get onto goals one by one. It helps you feel more productive, as you get the tasks done one by one. So in this way you start your day by feeling productive and every moment you feel more and more productive.

8.Practice thinking optimistic.

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You know sometimes we don’t feel any positive. Those negative emotions flood your mind. They can affect your subconscious and they hold you back in very important series of events. You definitely don’t want that. Try being optimistic about that. Try visualizing that life of your dreams. Those luxuries those accomplishments everything.

9.Embrace criticism

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I am sure that not everyone you have ever met in your life knows you the best. And that’s why they might want to criticize you. But you know what, they are just helping you. You will clearly learn your mistakes. And if you embrace those things, you will definitely rise above yourself. Just think about it you have found a whole new weakness in you. And that golden person has given you the chance to improve upon it. Learn how to learn from criticism

10. Take a good amount of sleep

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I saved the best for the last! It’s true. When you sleep your mind and body are completely relaxed. They reach the most comfortable state they can. And that’s why you will be energized if you get a good amount of sleep. So that your brain can arrange your body for the next work you have to do. But that doesn’t mean you get to sleep all day. Of course not. You will be lazy from productive in a single bound.

These are some great tips. If you have a question or suggestions please let me know in the comments.

Have a good day/night/evening! 🙂

Dream, Just dream!

Aim for the moon. If you miss, you will definitely hit the stars.

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We all have heard the famous quote. But have you practically used it?

We all have our own individual dreams. We seek particular things and experiences. But predominantly, we all wanna be successful. Now, the road to success isn’t easy, as we all know it. Is more demanding than any other thing. You need a large tank of fuel to drive on these long and rocky journeys. Which is definitely your dreams and aspirations.

Let’s consider your journey as a road trip from the place you are right now to who you wanna be, the things you wanna accomplish. In this journey, there are uphills, tough to climb. Yet providing alluring insights into life at their peaks. There are likewise low, deep downfalls. Where you may break down, only to rise up. You have the people accompanying you on your road trip, including lovers, admirers, and haters.

The aftereffect of this journey depends upon the above factors, conjointly on the paths pegged by you. The number and duration of halts you take, and speed of your progress.

Aiming for the universe- Dreaming biggest!

We all have different aspirations. Maybe you are aiming to become a great entrepreneur. Maybe your best friend wants to become an agent and your life partner wants to literally touch the stars,i.e to become an astronaut. But ask yourself one question that, is it really enough? or is it really the best you can do?

Dreaming fuels you, that’s true. But dreaming bigger even than your imagination inspires you. It drives you. You become focused. The obstacles seem undisclosable to you, objectively speaking.

If your dreams are heftier than people around you, then your actions would be much more different, productive and exceptional. Because you are dreaming exceptions, that no one other could. Again, it doesn’t make you any superior to those around you. because your competition is not in your neighborhood. It’s not even with the world. It’s with yourself.

The limit is not the sky, not the universe. There are no limits. It’s limitless.

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Action plan

Now, just dreaming and making up all the scenarios when you will be successful, isn’t gonna cut the cake! You have to take those demanding actions. You must be willing to thrive for your dream. Give your focus, energies, everything towards your dream. Because its the only thing you wanna achieve then why not do it in the best way we can? Since your dreams are extraordinary now, so should be your actions. For long-haul dreams, start doing the small things very crucial towards your dream, right now. Paint the bigger picture. Work through it.

See, its really important that your actions are pointing in Ithe same directions as your dreams.  You don’t want to just do hard work in the wrong direction. Be a hotshot and an adroit.


What’s the use if you don’t believe in what you are doing, where do you think its gonna lead you?  Belief is a key quality to achieve your dreams. All the great people in the world didn’t know how they were gonna do it. But they believed strongly that they were gonna achieve it. They just knew that. The question is, do you?

If you are not considering what you are doing as fruitful, you are not only just wasting your time but also literally insulting your dream. I am sorry but such dreams are never accomplished. Believe in yourself. Believe in your actions.

Facing the results

It was a perfect day. I had prepared for this moment for forever. I did everything perfectly. Still, I failed. That was just misluck.

If you ever did think like that, I am there to say right into your face that it was not. Its never ever a misfortune or devils own luck. Whatever happens with you is a consequence of what action you take, and what you think. Trust me, the law of attraction is there. It’s not gonna disappear just because you don’t find it useful.

So if you fail it’s your fault. Trivial maybe, but it is. There was just something inadequate in your path. Detect it. Correct it. Revamp your method. Try again. Failure is nothing if you stand up proudly to face the music. It takes time. But if anybody can complete your exceptional dreams, it is you.

When you finally achieve what you want, it will be new, shiny jubilant and much much more. You think you will finally be satisfied with your life and will rest for the rest of your life? No, you won’t. you have experienced one of the most beautiful feelings in the world. Your mind wants more of it. You won’t stop. You will keep achieving those medals, certificates, etc.

So this is it! Make yourself mindful, and start your journey from right now. Accomplish those things out there waiting for you. GO, GO, GO!